Ladies, what are you looking for in a man? How would you describe the perfect man? How about a man that would worship the ground that you walked on? A man that would focus his energy and his attention on you all of the time. A man that would treat you like a Queen, would pamper you, give you foot and body massages, and who would get more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. How about a man that do whatever you told him to do, without arguing or complaining? A man that would not only do all of his chores like cutting the grass and washing the cars, but would also do housework, the laundry, the grocery shopping, and even the cooking. How about a man that would wine and dine you and shower you with gifts? A man that would not cop jealous attitudes whenever you talk with or spend time with another man. Above all, a man that would love you with all of his heart and who would view you as his Goddess.
Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn’t it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.
Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.
If you don’t believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that? Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn’t he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn’t he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn’t it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn’t he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it’s time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?
What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn’t realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn’t realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn’t have to know about D&S and Female Domination back then. Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.
Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.
First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God’s last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.
God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam’s “helper”. The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word “ezer”. That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.
Next, begin to use your sexuality. I don’t mean to be promiscuous or to flaunt it. What I am talking about is dress sexy and act sexual. Don’t dress sleazy, but sophisticated and lady-like. Don’t run around in baggy clothes and sweat pants. Your dress reflects your self-image. Wear nice clothes. They don’t have to be expensive clothes, but they should be nice. Wear high heel shoes whenever you can. A lot of men have foot and leg fetishes and seeing an attractive woman wearing high heel shoes can make them weak and submissive. Now, I understand about how uncomfortable they can be at times so you don’t have to wear them all of the time but whenever you are going out somewhere and you want to feel extra sexy, don’t forget about your shoes. Also, get some leather clothing. A lot of men have a real leather fetish. A pair of leather pants or a leather skirt can make you feel sexy and powerful and at the same time make men feel weak and submissive. Again, look sophisticated and sexy but not sleazy.
Go to a salon and learn which hair style looks best on you. Also, learn how to properly apply the right kind and the right amount of make-up. Learn what shades look best with your hair color and complexion. If you dress sharp and look good, it will give you confidence and that confidence will radiate from you. Also, exercise and eat right. You want to look good and fit. If you need to lose weight, there are many quality weight loss clinics out there that can help. Don’t use fad diets or the lose weight fast schemes. Go to a doctor and lose weight the medically safe way. Also, exercise and tone up.
You don’t have to be skinny. As a matter of fact, many submissive men like a larger woman. However, you don’t want to be fat and you do want to be fit. If you are over weight and out of shape, don’t feel bad about yourself and don’t get discouraged. You can lose the weight. It just takes a quality decision. It will help you to feel so much better about yourself and the better you feel both physically and mentally, the more confident you will be and the more sexual energy that will be radiating from you.
Now as you make these slight adjustments to yourself and your self-image, also allow that dominant nature to flow out of you. Be bold and be strong. Expect good things to happen and they will. In your relationship with your man, begin to dominate him both in and out of the bedroom. Do my “psychoanalysis of the submissive male” on him. Begin to train him to be that perfect man that you desire. Expect excellence out of him and don’t allow him to take you for granted. Begin to discipline him, as men need this. Men grow up being disciplined and nurtured by women. Deep inside they still need and desire this. So learn how to discipline a man and how to properly train him.
Your Secret Advantage is that Males are visual, so Wear sexy Lingerie as much as possible around him. Exploit their Weakness in this area. Begin to learn about Dopamine, Karezza and Female Domination. Dopamine plays a Fundamental Role in Your Males Brain System, that is responsible for reward-driven learning. Some of these activities may seem strange, but they are Very Powerful Tools in getting a man to submit to your every whim & desire. Again Always Wear Sexy outfits and use his vulnerability against him. Female Domination & Karezza will really spice up your sex life and it will never be boring or routine again. If you will overcome your inhibitions and allow for sexuality and dominance to flow and to grow, you will begin to be amazed at how intense and enjoyable sex can be again for the both of you. Also, start to view sex as being for Your Orgasmic Pleasure, Not His. Get into the habit of Habitually & Routinely Denying his orgasmic nerves from firing and you will massively build his libido & sexual energy. If you deny him and Keep Him perpetually aroused, hungry and frustrated most of the time, he will be so much more eager to serve you and to obey you. He will focus on you and your needs if his sexual drive and desire for your femininity is on high. In Essence, You need to control his sexual drive in order to control him and you will become his Ruling Goddess…
So in Review, the main purpose of Karezza is the Maintenance and Indeed (The Intensification of Desire in the Male) But Also, More Frequent Enjoyment of Intense Sexual Pleasure for both the Male and the Female. The Male Quickly Learns through Repetitive Conditioning and Dopamine in his Brain, That His Throbbing Raging (Happy) Erection is Ultimately for his Ladies Orgasmic Pleasure and Dominance, Not His Ejaculation !!!
Please Reread the Above Again Slowly Because it is So Fundamentally Important.
With “Karezza” sex, The Male is Always Horny and “Always Wanting” Due to (Routine & Habitual) Prevention & Denial of Ejaculative Orgasm and thus ALWAYS desires his Princess and her Glorious Heavenly Femininity.
Teaching him How “Not to Cum” becomes Priceless, While you Orgasm Again and Again and Again on his Dominated Joystick, reinforcing your Authority and his Helpless Natural Dependency.
By doing these things, you will be unleashing that Tigress within you and you will allow your true Superior Nature to come forth.
Ladies, if you want to get started in the Female Domination lifestyle but do not know where to begin, perhaps this exercise can assist you.
I would recommend that you prepare for your mental examination by first getting your husband or submissive male in a state of total relaxation and submission. He Must be totally naked before you. Dress in your most sexy, yet dominant outfit to arouse his submissive nature and to break him of his inhibitions in order to get him to open up to you as you question him. Then slowly and calmly stroke his entire body as you dominate him to get him into a submissive frame of mind. If you do not yet know which triggers will stimulate his submission, then perhaps you could start with a non sexual penis massage.
Then once you have him to that magical place of submission, change your demeanor. Become soft, hold his manhood, kiss him, and love him. Find a comfortable bed or couch and have him lay with his head on your shoulder or lap as you begin to softly question him about his past. When he gets into some real deep, personal areas, I would recommend that you use your sexuality and firmly squeeze his helplessly growing erection, encouraging an answer. Allow him to suck your breasts and allow him to touch you in your most intimate areas as you slowly fondle his strengthening manhood and make it helplessly grow to full attention. Try to keep him relaxed and constantly remind him to breathe deeply. Allow his most deep desires to submit to women as a gender, and more importantly his desire to submit to you, to overwhelm him.
Keep encouraging him to open up more. You will come to understand him more than you ever thought was possible. Below are the questions that I use to dive into the submissive male’s psyche. It is important that you ask them in the exact order that they are numbered. Do not add or subtract from them. If you are the wife, when a question asks him about his wife, do not change it. Ask it as is. You are not only the wife, but you represent women as a gender to him. If he says anything that you don’t like, do not scold him about it. Be accepting. You can deal with things that you do not like at a latter time. Also, do not rush through the questions, you want to find out as much information as you can. Take your time and probe him as much as possible while you slowly and tenderly stroke his raging erection. Make sure You Don’t simulate him too much while questioning him…You Absolutely DO NOT want to Make him Ejaculate during your questioning, but you do want him to remain Rock Hard the entire time thus building his dopamine levels.
The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male:
1. Do you remember the first time that you ever had a sexual orgasm?
(As you ask this question, lightly stroke his penis)
1a) Please explain this experience in detail.
(Quit Stroking him at this point & Just Hold his shaft so he will be able to think)
2). How old were you when you first realized that you wanted to be sexually dominated by a woman?
(Give his balls a firm squeeze when you ask this)
2a) Explain where you were and what triggered these feelings?
2b) Why do you think that you had these feelings?
(Begin ever so Slowly, Lightly Stroking his Joystick again)
2c.) Would you say that the desire to be sexually dominated by a woman has grown stronger or weaker as you have grown older?
3. What kind of relationship did you have with your Mother when you were a child?
(Stroke his face and hair)
3a) Was she the one who would discipline you when you misbehaved?
3b) Can you recall any intense experiences that you had with her when she was disciplining you? Like was she ever extra forceful or physical with you?
3c) How is your relationship with your Mother today?
3d) How do you feel about your Mother?
4. Do you have an older sister (or older sisters)?
(Continue with face and hair stroking)
4a) What kind of a relationship did you have with her (or with them) when you were growing up?
4b) Can you recall any experiences with her (them) that you would classify as female domination?
5. Can you recall having submissive feelings toward any other women when you were growing up?
5e) Other female authority figures?
6. How about dreams? Can you recall having any dreams about being dominated by a woman?
(Play with his nipples)
6a) Tell me about these dreams in detail, as best as you can remember them.
6b) How old were you when you had these dreams?
6c) Did you ever have any re-occuring ones?
6d) Do you still have dreams about female domination today?
(Squeeze his Rock Hard Cock Shaft Firmly when you ask this question)
7. How about dating? Did you date a lot before you got married? (or before your current relationship?)
(Caress his chest and stomach)
7a) What type of a girl were you attracted to? Aggressive? Shy? Any certain hair color or physical build? Nice girls or ones with a bit of a reputation?
7b) Were you sexually active as a teen or young adult?
8. Describe in detail the first time that you had sex with a girl? How old were you? Was it a pleasant experience?
(Continue to caress his body)
8a) Would you say that you were the aggressor or was she?
8b) What type of sex did you engage in? You performing oral sex on her? Her performing oral sex on you? Both? Intercourse with you on top? Intercourse with her on top? All of the above?
8c) How many women did you sleep with before your current relationship? Many, Average, or Few?
8d) Why do you think that you slept with that many (or few) women?
9. How about fetishes? Do you have any?
(Place an article of leather clothing next to his lips and nose and allow him to smell and lick the material as you ask these questions)
9a) Does seeing a woman wearing leather turn you on? Why do you think that is?
9b) How about boots? Do you get excited seeing a woman wearing leather boots? Why do you think that is?
9c) (If he answers yes to 9a or 9b). Can you recall the first time you got excited seeing a woman wear leather? Did it make her seem more powerful to you? Did you feel weak seeing her wear leather?
9d) Do you like my leather? Would you like to see me wear more of it?
9e) Do you have a fetish to rubber, PVC, Lace, or any other material?
(If yes, repeat 9a through 9d only replace leather with the material that he has a fetish for)
10. Have you read much on the subject of Female Domination? What books or magazines did you read?
10a) Describe a story or two that you remember reading that really excited you?
(As he describes any stories or articles, give his balls an occasional squeeze, his penis an occasional slap, and his nipples a pinch to re-enforce the woman’s dominance.)
10b) Why do you think these stories excited you so?
11. Did you watch many Female Domination videos or main stream movies that had female domination themes or scenes in them?
11a) Describe a couple of scenes that you vividly remember that got you sexually excited.
(Do the same as in 10a)
11b) Why do you think that these scenes excited you so?
12. What was it specifically about your wife (or current girlfriend) that attracted you to her?
(Softly kiss him on his face, neck or forehead)
12a) Do you consider her to be dominant?
12b) Who was more of the aggressor when you started dating? You or Her?
12c) Is it possible that it was her potential to dominate you that attracted you to her?
13. Describe your relationship with her today?
(Continue to kiss his forehead)
13a) Who would you say is in charge of your relationship? You, her, or neither?
13b) Have you ever confessed to her about your desires to be dominated by a woman?
13c) How do you think that she would respond?
13d) If she was willing, would you allow her to rule over you and would you be willing to surrender yourself to her?
13e) What parts of yourself would you be willing to surrender over to her? Your sex life? Your personal life? Your finances? Your free time? Every area of yourself?
13f) What area of yourself are you least likely to surrender over to her?
13g) What if she demanded that part of yourself? Would you give in? Is it possible that you would surrender that area over to her?
14. Do you believe in God?
14a) If so, do you think that God is male or female?
14b) Why do you believe the way that you do?
15.What are your feelings about Female Supremacy?
(Squeeze his Erection and balls Now Very Firmly)
15a) Do you consider females to be superior to men, men to be superior to females, or do you think that both are equal?
15b) Why? What traits make one sex superior to the other, or why are they equal?
15c) Would you like to be ruled by women?
15d) Would you like to be ruled by your wife (current girlfriend)?
16. Knowing both the male makeup and the female makeup, I can tell you that the only way for a female to totally dominate a man is through tough and even extreme measures. Would you be willing to endure these tough and extreme measures for me?
(If he answers yes to any of the following questions, give his “Balls” a firm squeeze and say “It will give me great pleasure to make you endure this for me”.)
16a) Would you endure corporal punishment, including spankings, whippings, and other tough measures? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16b) Would you endure being humiliated by the female, including being belittled, degraded, and verbally abused? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16c) Would you endure being denied sexual orgasms for long periods of time, while being made to give the female as many orgasms as she demands? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16d) Would you endure having your genitals punished and dominated (CBT)? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16e) Would you endure having the woman turn the tables on you and having her use a strap-on dildo to put you in your proper place? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
6f) Would you endure the humiliating act of having a woman urinate on you? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16g) Would you endure being forced to watch your woman take another lover in your presence? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16h) Would you endure having her dominate you in front of other women? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
16i) Finally, would you endure being her total slave, having to do all chores that she assigns to you? Do you desire this and if so, Why?
17. Do you trust me with this kind of power over you?
17a) Then tell me your most hidden secrets. Confess to me something that you have never confessed to anyone. Something that you have hidden deep inside of you. You can trust me. Surrender all of your hidden secrets to me. Confess all to me.
This is where he might confess anything. It might be earth shattering or it might be something that sounds insignificant. However, it will not be insignificant to him. If it is earth shattering, it is important that you respond with understanding and love. Again, if it’s something that angers you, you can punish him later. This is where he is most likely to break down. If he does, this is a positive sign. He is losing control of his will, over to you. He is surrendering. Either way, it is important that you seize the moment.
Comfort him. Then once you are done comforting him, get him Rock Hard again (If His Erection Has Deflated) by touching and stroking his “Joystick” Carefully and kissing him. It is Important that you mount him as soon as possible after this and allow him to “Fully” enter you. Hold his Hyper Sensitive, Throbbing & Screaming Erection perfectly still (Captive and Imprisoned), deep up inside of you and let him feel the warmth and the pleasure of your heavenly loins. Tell him that you love him and Insist that He Resists the Urge to Orgasm Inside of You. Ask him if your pussy “ISN’T PARADISE”. Remain Perfectly Still. If You Think and “Feel” That the pleasure is getting just too good for him and that he just might have an Accident and Explode, withdraw him Immediately from inside of you. Otherwise Keep Him Imprisoned and Captive Deep Up Inside of you and feel him throb with Desire. If You Withdrew him from your vagina, give his penis and balls a loving kiss and then a firm steady squeeze on his tip, look him in the eyes, and say to him something like the following:
"My Dear, I know that you have searched your entire life to find your rightful place, which is to be in complete submission to a woman. Well, your search is over. I am here and I am here to stay. I want you to surrender all to me. Your mind, your body, your finances, your male ego, your Will Power, Your ALL. I expect you to be my total slave. You will have to endure much for me and I will always be expanding your limits. However, you can just let go and Fully Submit to my feminine power. If He is still inside of you, now is the time you do a kegel squeeze on his Dominated Helpless Erection.
I want you to realize that women are far superior to men, and that it’s OK. It’s your rightful place to be in total submission to me and my pussy. Don’t fight it, just give in and surrender. You have looked and searched your entire life, but now I am here and your search is over. Just surrender and do all that I command you. Do you understand my Love?”
After he agrees, which I am sure that he will, explain to him that you are taking total control of his penis and genitals and that his orgasms will be few and very rare. Tell him that you Absolutely Love his Rock Hard Cock and that you want it “Hard” for you at all times. Remember, that it is not a man’s narcissism, or even his exhibitionism, that you are indulging here, but Secretly his ever Imminent Submission and Surrender to Your Total Sexual Control Over Him. Tell him that women are the ones who are to receive pleasure and men are here to give them that pleasure. Then order him to humble himself and to take his Proper Place between your legs and order him to orally please you, and for as long as you would like.
By doing this psychoanalysis of the submissive male, you should feel much closer to him and he should feel much closer to you (naked & vulnerable) and the two of you should have bonded together in a deeper and more intimate way. Now you must build upon this procedure.
You are on your way to a much more fuller and happier relationship than you ever thought possible, as you, the dominant woman, fulfill your natural position which is to be in complete and total control of your hungry horny fully submissive man.
Remember if Trained “Properly”, ALL Worthwhile Males want to PLEASE their women!
In nature, we ALL Learn to repeat behaviors that lead to maximizing rewards and Dopamine provides a ”Teaching” signal to the parts of the Male Brain Responsible for acquiring New Behavior.
True & Proper Feminine Domination of the Male Mind & Penis uses Praise & Encouragement, Effectively Increasing his Dopamine Brain Levels thru Prolonged Mental Suggestion/Pleasurable Sexual Simulation.
You want to continually (Daily) KEEP him right on the Verge of Erupting. This is your most important goal, the pursuit and prolongation of his pre-orgasmic pleasure, thus building maximum sexual energy and Dopamine levels within his brain. So have fun Teasing & Torturing Him & Keeping Him Right On The Edge of Orgasm, Knowing You are Secretly Programming The Behavioral Changes You Want in Him as you whisper your desires sensuously in his ear.
Karezza Style Intercourse leads to a woman’s complete discharge of her nervous surplus, complete relief from all sexual tension due to Intense Orgasmic Ecstasy for her, And More Prolonged BLISS and Satisfaction for Him than an Ejaculation Could Ever Provide.
Note: Depriving a man of the use of his Erection while he is Utterly Helpless & Completely “CAPTIVE” (Imprisoned), Deep up Inside of your Vagina, is a Most Wonderful form of obtaining Complete Sexual Dominance / Control over him, Especially If U Orgasm While Preventing Him from Doing So .
Cherish your Intimate Union & Your (1 in a Million) ability of keeping him Right on the Edge of Orgasmic Insanity, waiting upon (Your Will); hoping for (Your Permission) to Erupt and Explode his Orgasm deep inside of you, while you loose it and Orgasm yourself on his Powerful Joystick, Over and Over again to your hearts content. Again Remember, Your Programming His Mind & Behavior with Repetition !!! Continuously & Regularly, Remind him to Breathe and Relax as you Dominate Him Sexually, Because he will “Truly” Forget to if You’re keeping him “Edged” Properly.